What Does Your Lover Really need? Based on Their Zodiac Sign

What does he / she want? This is a question that people have been pondering throughout time. Just like the basic needs of survival – air, water, and food, people have some basic emotional needs that are various for each person. A couple needs love, common goals, and shared interests to bind them together. When we find someone that we are interested in, we all hope that we possess the qualities that they want. It can be challenging to find out what it is an individual truly wants, but astrology can help. The stars know how to cut through all the surface stuff and get to the simple qualities that each sign wants in a partner.

Here is the most important thing that he / she needs from you, according to his / her zodiac sign.

Aries (Mar 21 – Apr 19) need you to accept them.

Aries are full of confidence and energy, so you would never know that they hate to be rejected. If Aries can be 100% convinced that you accept them and will never reject them, they will be ready to take your relationship to the next level. Aries are often short-tempered and impatient, but for your, they will push that aside. Be ready to be their comfort, and provide them peace and tranquillity if needed.

Taurus (Apr 20 – May 20) need you to be trustworthy.

Taurus can be very stubborn and determined but underneath that intractable façade is a person who craves security. They are always excited to be with you and show it in their actions. Show them that you will always stay by their side and that they can depend on your support even if they are being inflexible.

Gemini (May 21 – Jun 20) need you to be a great conversationalist.

The Gemini brain is going a mile a minute and they can talk fast as well. They are bursting with ideas and humour and they love sharing both with people. If you can keep up with the Gemini and not only be a great talker but also a fantastic listener, your Gemini will be hooked.

Cancer (Jun 21 – Jul 22) need you to be patient.

Cancer can be moody and it is not just that they experience a variety of emotions; it is that they experience them all intensely. Cancers need their partners to be able to listen to them with an open heart, not judge them, and to care about them. Knowing that you are not secretly rolling your eyes or thinking about your shopping list while your Cancer partner is expressing how he / she feels will allow him / her to trust you.

Leo (Jul 23 – Aug 22) need to see them as the leader.

Leos are ambitious and confident. They love being in the spotlight, being looked up to, and making bold choices. They need their special someone to not just look up to them, but to see them as courageous and strong. If you make them feel invincible, they will be forever faithful and loving. Don’t be stingy with your honeyed words.

Virgo (Aug 23 – Sep 22) need you to be grateful.

Virgo is analytical and reliable, yet somewhat anal and exacting. They like everything to be where it is supposed to be. If their books are in alphabetical order and you pull one out to look at it, put it back exactly where it was. When your Virgo solves a problem for you, let him / her know that you are thankful that he / she is in your life.

Libra (Sep 23 – Oct 22) need you to be non-judgmental.

Although Libra is the sign of scale, they cannot stand to be judged. What they want most is unconditional love and knowing that you would not break up with them. They are optimistic and will always see the good in you, even if you do not see it.

Scorpio (Oct 23 – Nov 21) need you to be honest.

Scorpios always want to see you happy and sincere. Scorpios cannot stand lies of any kind and would rather someone be brutally honest than telling a white lie. If you show Scorpios that you only speak the truth, they will be able to trust you enough to consider a long-term relationship.

Sagittarius (Nov 22 – Dec 21) need you to be open to the possibilities.

If you are closed off and not interested in expanding your world, you are not a good fit for a Sagittarius. They need constant change and a partner who has the same kind of enthusiasm for travelling and meeting new people as they do. If you show Sagittarius how open-minded you are, they will know that they have found a kindred spirit and will not let you go.

Capricorn (Dec 22 – Jan 19) need you to be mature.

Capricorns are responsible, dependable, and hard working. Capricorns do not do well with people who refuse to grow and get their lives in order. When Capricorns consider a partner, they need the partner to share the same kind of values and life goals as they do. You should have a strong work ethic, be financially stable, and understand the importance of family. Show Capricorn that you are their perfect half in all aspects, and they will see you as their marriage material.

Aquarius (Jan 20 – Feb 18) need you to be independent.

Aquarius are humanitarians, inventive, and smart. If you are one of those people who do not care other people’s perspectives and march their own drum, then you are a match with an Aquarius. Aquarius value independence and self-confidence. They will accept you for who you are and you will never need to hold back a part of yourself.

Pisces (Feb 19 – Mar 20) need you to be compassionate.

Pisces are creative and selfless. They will help anyone in trouble, and if you show them that you will always be there for them and that you truly care about the well-being of others, Pisces will know that they have met their soul mate.

 

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Dora Jiang – ENFJ – “The Protagonist”

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Stephanie Zang – INFP – “Mediator”

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Shirley Shi – ESFJ – “The Consul”

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Angela Gan – ENTJ – “The Commander”

Angela has a particular skill in recognizing the talents and needs of others, which helps in building team efforts and push people around her to perfect themselves. She believes that one’s time is very limited. So, she always prioritizes herself and her family in front of anything else. As your RA with the expertise in dealing with family relationships and self-image/presentation, Angela can guide you on how to build a healthy, loving relationships with your family while maintaining a successful, busy academic career at USC. *Extraverted (71%) Intuitive (52%) Thinking (38%) Judging (59%)*